3 EASY WAYS TO BE A POSITIVE PERSON



I was going through my Bloglovin feed when I saw a post from Career Diaries Girl,  about being positive and let’s just say I was inspired to write one about it but unfortunately, they've change the post from being positive to pampering on Sunday night.

Find out more on CDG: http://www.careergirldaily.com/3-step-ritual-will-help-relax-sunday/

Long story short, there’s always a time when you wake up feeling positive until that one tini-tiny thing got on your nerves and that’s it.. all your ‘all about being positive’ when straight down the drain. Well, I face it every single day. I was v happy in the beginning and next thing I know, I’m grumpy as hell.

Either it’s a long run or for a daily basis, everyone needs a good tips on being positive and being positive is really something that I struggle a lot.. I hope this could make your day even better because, trust me.. it really does help.

1.   Loving yourself
You cant be positive if you don’t love yourself. I know how cliché the word ‘love yourself’ when you know you have 1001 flaws but you need to remember one thing..
Human is not perfect, I am not perfect. Zoella is not perfect. Niomi Smart is not perfect. No one in this world is perfect. We all have flaws, we all have something that we are not proud of but there’s no one can love you as much as you can love yourself. Loving yourself is a whole another topic that we would discuss but in short, when you accept who you are, then no one can bring you down or make you feel bad about yourself.

2.   Ignore the judgement
Last year, I did wish to have a year that people will stop judging others. I felt like 2016 have been the year that people are trying hard to judge other by what they wear, what they eat, what they do.. like seriously? You do have that much time to think about other people whilst I’m not having enough time for my priorities. I know its hard to ignore ‘em but you are a lot more that what people perceive you to be. I know that some people have been bullied over the years, body shaming, and lots of other stuff.. I think the best way to ignore judgement is to surround yourself with people that accept you for who you are.  I don’t know if this make sense but the more people who support you, the stronger you’ll get to create a barriers to avoid and ignore judgement.


3.   Do what you love and love what you do
This is a quote that I came by a lot when I was a younger teenager. Honestly, I don’t really get it until recently I realized that sometimes, the thing that you love to do isn’t the thing that you love. Let’s put it this way..
Although you love singing but singing isn’t really what you love to do.. its kinda a hobby rather something you really what to do or you love your daily job but daily job isn’t really what you want to do. So, “what you love” and “love what you do” is two different thing that if you really master that, you could actually be a positive person because you genuinely passionate about that one thing. Its easy for us as a bloggers because that is what we love to do and that is what we’re passionate about but on the other hand.. working, universities.. is that really what we want to do or is it part of essentials?

Trust me, when you love, passionate about a something, you are happy and willingly to do so without getting stress out and that’s how you could gain on being a positive person.




19 comments

  1. I need to learn to avoid judgment it only brings me down and stops me doing what I love

    Tasha x

    http://itsatashathing.blogspot.com/

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    1. Loving what you do and do what you love is the only thing that will keep you going. Its the best motivation that a person can have. :) x

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  2. Great tips, I think it's important not to listen to what other people think of you

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    1. Thank you so much. I hope you get something from this post :) x

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  3. It's 07:00am and I'm just up, on my phone, in bed and this is exactly what I needed to hear (or read) to start my day. Thank you for the positive vibes first thing on a Tuesday morning!

    Lots of love
    Charlene McElhinney
    @blogabtnothing1

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    1. I'm glad that I get to spread positiveness and hopefully it helps you to get through your day. :) x

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  4. I definetely needed to read this post today, I definetely need to care less about other people's judgements of me and try to love myself more x

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    1. There's tons of changes that you could witness when you love yourself more and put yourself first. x

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  5. I'm a firm believer of "do what you love and love what you do". I don't give a sh*t about what people expect of me all the time, really xD it definitely shaped me to be a positive person.

    skinnydecxflatte.blogspot.com xo

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    1. I would say its easy for us as a blogger because we know what we want to do but its saddening to see some people wasting their time with things they're unsure about. x

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  6. Defiantly needed this post. Great read 😊

    Steph xx

    Steph’s World | Lifestyle Blog | www.stephsworld.com

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    1. Thank you so much! Good to know that there are people who need this kind of post :D x

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  7. Sometimes a post comes along right when you need it. Loved this!

    www.withlovekatie.com

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    1. That's the reason why I wanted to a blogger so bad. To help those in need. Thank you so much! I hope you're doing well. No matter what happen, always believe in yourself and remember that you are more than what you think. x

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  8. These are three great tips and can be easy to. Just gotta learn to love yourself and ignore the haters. (:

    Single Vegas Girl
    http://singlevegasgirl.blogspot.com

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    1. Sometimes the best advice would be the simplest thing in live such as put yourself first before others. x

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    2. Sometimes the best advice would be the simplest thing in live such as put yourself first before others. x

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  9. I love the Do What You Love And Love What You Do! I'm working on filling my life with what I enjoy- it's difficult but so important :)
    http://www.youtube.com/c/ancientemma

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    1. Sometimes it could be difficult but that's when the motivation comes in. I hope you have great day and time doing the thing you love :) x

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